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Sexual Secrets of Tantrc Kabbalah: Making Love Book One: Sex Education
Once upon a time, the sexual glory of humanity was everywhere evident. Women made you human. Men followed women into humanness with joy and enthusiastic adoration. Men loved women and knew their debt to her. Men knew that everything they loved most about themselves was given to them by women. The smell of a woman was not covered with clothes or sickly sweet perfumes. She was never shy or embarrassed and she knew. Her knowledge created ecstasy and bliss and the making of love. Love was not fleeting but the prolonged pursuit of the day. Love stayed with a man even when he was a distance away, in danger. Love gave him strength and made him whole. Love had substance, a bond stronger than life and blood and especially more powerful than fear.
Men did kill, but killing did not make them incapable of love. They did not kill each other but giant beasts that would freeze the hearts and courage of the so called superior modern man. They cooperated with each other and everyone had a place, everyone was equal, everyone was loved. They had awe and respect for the beasts they killed, they were not cruel, and they were better in their hearts than you are.
Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it and sounds much better than your modern life. You live separate lives now, every man for himself. Such loneliness, terrible loneliness everywhere, how can you do this to yourselves? Don’t you remember what life was like?
Don’t you remember how happy you were just to be alive? You were so vibrant and magical. Every moment of every day you were awake, alive, effortlessly enthused with life itself, the breath, smell and wonder of every thing but especially each other. The touch of each other, the smell of each other, the taste of each other, and the sound of each other’s pleasure all wove together a nest of love, a special place that only existed inside of each other but that was stronger than the tooth of the cat or the claw of the bear. What you looked like was almost unimportant, and certainly did not make you ashamed. It did not matter how hairy you were or how much you looked like a monkey. There was no cult of celebrity perfect looks. Women were not ashamed of their normal shape and appearance. Fat was not a curse word.
There was a time when every consciousness could not wait to be born into a body. The sheer pleasure of bodies outweighed every risk. All the natural pleasures of life and love gave you a strength that is so rare today. You could tolerate pain when it came. The touch of your loved ones and lovers released more powerful medicines in your brain and mind than the addictive drugs of your pharmaceutical companies. There was no profit then. There was just life and love. Love, love, love was wondrous. Love is what made you human, love is what kept you human and love is what has been lost and the deprivation of love has been tearing at your humanity for so many generations. Who would have thought that you could forget so much? Who would have thought you could forget your true selves, your true nature? Who would ever have thought that you could reach a point of such incredible ignorance about sexuality? And what makes you even more ridiculous and sad is your arrogance. It is that attitude of false superiority that keeps you from even seeking the truth. You think you have evolved beyond sex. You think that sex is dirty and shameful. You think that sex is beneath your dignity. You think that sex is evil and yet it wasn’t until you forgot about sex and the connection between sex and making love that you woke up to world wars, genocide, torture, and terrorism. When you denigrated and denied sex, you lost love. Love stopped being made the way humans always made love. Without love, you became critical and judgmental of yourselves and others. Without love, the world became cold and lonely and you are always out of place. Without love, you better have good insurance. Without love, you better have an AK-47 or .50 caliber Desert Eagle. Without love, nothing really matters does it?
For seven thousand years, you have been told that sex should only be for making babies. For seven thousand years, women have been ridiculed and criticized for their sexuality. It was women who lost the Garden of Eden. It was women who opened Pandora’s Box. Women are this, women are that. Women can’t do anything right. Men criticize women to control them. A dominated woman is fearful and insecure all the time. Men make it so that women never feel right in their own bodies. Men take young boys away from women and teach boys to struggle, fight and hate. Men take young boys away from women and make boys afraid for their own survival. Only if you fight hard enough do you deserve a place of your own. Only then are you rewarded with a woman and a family. Only if you fight and win, are you a man. Being a man means to be in such control of your feelings that you can do what should be repugnant to every human being. The loss of your feelings is the loss of your humanity. Fight, fight, fight, has replaced love, love, love.
Men blame the world’s woes upon women, but women did not deny the glory of sex and women did not create war. You are running out of time. There is still time but only barely enough time to fix what you have screwed up. Soon there will be a tipping point and none of my words will matter anymore. Since it is not yet here it may be kept from ever manifesting. There is still time to make love. Love is the answer. Love will make everyone feel safe and secure. Love will make everyone have a place. Love will make everyone equal again. Love will heal the planet. Love will heal your wounds, heal your psyche and heal your soul. Love is the answer but first you have to remember how to make Love. Love is made, love is created.
Making love will restore your humanity and bring the world back into balance. It was always meant to be this way, but you have forgotten. Sadly you need to be educated and that is the purpose of this chapter on sex education. But I will not teach you if you do not agree that you know nothing and need to start from the very beginning. Accept that and you will learn to make love. When you learn to make love and you devote yourself to making love and bringing love back into the world, then the world will heal. Once again all consciousness will yearn to be in your bodies.
Sexual Secrets of Tantric Kabbalah: Making Love Book Two: Trust
In Chapter One Sex Education, you just read about amazing sex, a very precious and loving sex that lasts for hours, and that brings a woman to multiple and continuous orgasms that also lasts for hours. These orgasms are life changing and healing. Yet very few women ever get to experience this kind of magical sex. Magical sex requires trust and there is so little trust left in the world. Women do not trust men and for very good reasons. And men, who hold almost all the power in the world and control the world, are afraid of women. These two human characteristics: fear and lack of trust keeps us from the kind of sex that all human beings deserve and in fact desperately need. Restoring trust to the world will restore sex magic to the world and provide the healing that is desperately needed.
It is very important to understand that this magical sex is what every woman deserves. It is her evolutionary inheritance. To deny her magical sexuality is the act of a thief. Women instinctually know this is true. The proof that this is an evolutionary inheritance is the basic biology of every woman. You can touch any woman with the love described in Chapter One and she will have these kinds of overwhelming magical orgasms. Her biology ensures this. Her brain ensures this. Her neurological sensitivity of her nipples, clitoris, goddess spot and cervix provides proof. Her brain structure that releases oxytocin in her hypothalamus and rewires her brain to provide these healing orgasms is proof. The fact that so many humans do not know this and do not use these structures properly does not challenge the truth that this is what evolution has determined is most beneficial to the survival of humanity. Only an overwhelming survival value would justify the biological expense of having such complex neurobiological features that allow expanded orgasm.
The significance of women’s biology is that humanity survived because of magical sex. Why don’t you know that? The sexual repression of human civilization has gone to great lengths to try and make us forget our essential human nature. It is easy to understand why women do not trust men. From the moment of their first socialization in schools girls are taught that boys are better than they are. Girls are taught that boys are to be in charge and in control. Patriarchal religions, organized and controlled by men, teach that women are the root of all evil and female sexuality is that root. As soon as girls start to touch their own bodies, which all girls do naturally, they are punished, slapped and criticized. As they grow older they learn that their status in society is dependent upon the status of first their father and then her husband. Her economic potential is severely limited compared to men. Control of her own body is taken away from her and given to first her father and then her husband.
Women have been kept barefoot and pregnant and without a vote for a very long time. While modernity has vastly improved the situation of women in the educated class of the Western world, the majority of women still suffer the brunt of patriarchal violence and oppression. It is easy to understand why women do not trust men. But the other half of the situation is much harder to understand, why are men so afraid of women and why does that fear turn into such hateful misogyny? Misogyny is the evil heart of patriarchy that must be transformed for men and women to return to their evolutionary roles and for magical sex to return to the world.
To understand this fear men have of women, let us look together at two words that are known to be feminine. They are the ocean and the unconscious. They both represent something vast and powerful, which dwarfs the individual and his consciousness. Many people who have studied human history believe that just after the time of Homer and at the end of the Hebrew Biblical period a major evolutionary change occurred in human consciousness.
Prior to this time it was common for individuals from all societies and cultures to speak to the Gods. Afterwards the voice of the Gods disappeared. To many, this is the time when the human ego first appeared and individual separation from the group occurred psychologically. It is hard for modern humans to conceive of things differently but the loneliness and isolation that is so common today is historically very new. Prior to the appearance of the human ego, Divine voices and group consciousness was the normal mode of human consciousness. This separation and individuation occurred roughly 2500 to 3000 years ago. The appearance of patriarchy was 7,000 years ago. Obviously the development of an ego was an advantage within a patriarchal culture. The evolutionary developmental stage of the ego as it currently exists is directly connected to the patriarchal culture that created it.
The development of an individual’s ego recapitulates the evolutionary development that human beings experienced as a species. The unconscious mind is much larger than the small amount of the brain that the conscious mind uses. The vast ocean of the collective consciousness is infinitely larger than the individual unconscious mind. These two feminine forces threaten to overwhelm the smaller, separate, lonely and primarily male ego. This developmental fear of the ego is the source of misogyny.
This fear is not a failure either morally or constitutionally. It is very understandable that the drive to individuate and exist separate from something monolithic and vast will engender fear of the looming monolith. Once the ego has a chance to live, grow and develop, it can revisit the cause of infantile fears. A mature ego can overcome survivalist thinking as history also teaches. Those who focus on “what’s in it for me” are not remembered kindly by history.
Both male and female individuals will have this same developmental fear yet generally speaking women are much more intuitive and global in their thinking than men are, and use their right cerebral hemisphere much more than men do. This keeps women closer to their own individual unconscious mind and the collective consciousness. As a result of this natural closeness to the Divine Feminine a woman does not fear these feminine forces of nature the same way a man does.
This fear is not conscious to the male ego. Men do not even acknowledge that they are afraid of women, since they always claim they are superior. One is not afraid of those who are inferior, are they? Yet the behavior of patriarchal suppression and persecution of women reveals what men do not acknowledge about themselves.
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Elder's Meditation of the Day - April 5 "As we plunge ahead to build empires and race for supremacy we should stop and listen to [the female] song of life. For without the female there is no life."
--Oren R. Lyons, Spokesman, Traditional Circle of Elders
Women are created with the ability to produce life. Women have a special tie to the Earth Mother. They have something in common. They are the source of life. The Earth Mother gives songs to the Woman to sing. These songs are about life, about beauty, about children, about love, about family, about strength, about caring, about nurturing, about forgiveness, about God. The World needs to pay attention and listen to Her. She knows. Great Spirit, let me listen to Her songs.
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Tea in Mesopotamia
When Lilith and Babalon meet for tea the Moonlight is bent
Somewhere in all of time and none
They sit respectively on wings of ancient birds
Birds that sing a ghost like melody through this
ecliptic and Ancient Hall
Both have their Beauty branded by the mysteries unfolding
The Time of the Forgotten,
The Elixir Vitae has somehow spilled
Lilith dreams of petals folding into gold, she whispers that
she secretly wishes the red of her lips is replaced
from the Deep Red of ROSES
rather then of blood
She has envied Babalon's position
Lilith Tells Babalon she rather loves the idea of Beauty emerging
from light of darkness rather then the darkness of light
They sit, Babalon drinking Tea made of the Rose
Lilith sipping her Tea of Blood
Speaking of their lost Dreams
Their is a certain Ancient Hope for renewal
as Lilith slowly lets the world know she would like a
different kind of Tea
Brewed under full Moon light
evolved
sadness
lost innocence transforming
into
sumptuous dreaming
As Lilith and Babalon Speak over Tea in the Bent Moonlight.
Blue.seed
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